Vegetarian Gets Mad That Roommate Cooks Meat In Dorm Room, Roommate Feels Bad

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    Font - AITA for refusing to stop cooking meat in my shared dorm? Not the A-hole So me and my roomate K are both freshman in college. Was share a two bedroom dorm that is apartment styled so we have a kitchen, living room, and bathroom as well. I love cooking and because I now pay a choose what I get to eat I like to eat meat. I'm starting to work out and the extra protien is great and tasty. My roommate K is vegetarian. We really have no issues with our dietary differences and we both just buy o
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    Font - K has expressed that she doesn't like meat because of the smell or taste, which is why she's vegetarian. I resoect that and because of our schedules I only end up cooking my weeks worth of meals (that often include meat) during times when she's in class. It just kinda happened. One day she came home early from class and saw me preparing some chicken for my pasta. She got a disgusted look and I apologized that I happened to be cooking when she got home. She went to her room and I opened a
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    Font - Later she asked me to stop cooking meat in our dorm all together because she almost felt like puking earlier. I refused and pointed out that I have been cooking meat since we first moved in together. She just never smelt it because she didn't get back from class till a while after I was done and had a window open. It was simply a change in schedule which is why she got home while I was cooking. We use separate dishes and cooking utensils and I always open up a window after I finish cookin
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    Font - 1 Award NTA. Don't apologize, don't succumb to pressure. Your diet is your choice, hers is her choice and neither of you can tell the other what to cook. You've been accommodating enough by only cooking when you think she won't be there. If she can't be somewhere where meat has been cooked, she should have asked for a dorm room without a kitchen. G Reply 1 4k 3 ...
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    Font - AngeloPappas • 4d Craptain [173] NTA - But stop going out of your way accommodate her. It's your home too and it's perfectly normal to cook meals in your home. If she cannot handle it, maybe she needs to be moved to another room with a fellow vegetarian. In all honestly colleges should maybe try asking these types of screening questions when pairing roommates to prevent things like this. G Reply 4 918 3
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    Organism - NTA. It's your dorm just as much as it is hers and you're doing everything right -- venting the windows, not sharing cookware, being mindful of cooking meat when she's not home. If she expects more, she can file for a dorm room change. You have a right to eat what you want as much as anyone else. G Reply 204 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Tanooki07 · 3d Partassipant [1] Vegan here, NTA. You are already being very accomodating by working around her schedule. Asking you to refrain from cooking meat entirely is unreasonable. G Reply 4 162 3 ...
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    Font - PolyesterAtrocity · 3d Certified Proctologist [27] NTA. Call university housing and request a different roommate. This is a fundamental and intractable issue between you and the roomie, and it's not going to be resolved unless you give up the meat. That's not likely, so make the call. G Reply 4 75 3 ...
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    Font - NTA. You are trying to be a considerate roommate by opening a window. Her bad luck that she came home when she did. You should not have to change your routine to cater to her preferences. G Reply ...
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    Font - HowardProject · 3d Commander in Cheeks [284] NTA - you've gone out of your way to be thoughtful and considerate here and she's being incredibly overbearing. At this point l'd just go back to cooking my meals whenever I happen to be hungry - she wants a vegetarian roommate, SHE can swap to a different room situation. G Reply 金69 ...
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    Font - jengaj2016 · 4d Partassipant [3] NTA. You're a great roommate for cooking when she's not there. Now she's basically saying that you should suffer all the time by not getting to cook and eat meat because she came home early one time and suffered a little bit. That's completely unfair. I do think you should have a discussion about it. Let her know that you will continue to only cook when she's not home, and she needs to let you know if her schedule is going to change. You've been getting al
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    Font - Lost-Path2741 · 3d NTA You are trying your hardest to prevent any discomfort for her; if you like eating meat, eat it. Her diet is not your diet. She does not get to decide what you should or shouldnt eat unless she is deadly allergic to something (like nuts). If she is so appaled by the smell than i think she should look for another appartment (where she lives alone or where she lives with people who have the same diet.) G Reply ...
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    Font - azemilyann26· 3d NTA I'm a vegetarian and the smell of cooking meat grosses me out, too. But I don't expect the entire world to stop and cater to my preferences. You have the right to use your living space, just as she does. G Reply ..
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    Smile - NTA. It's your home that you are paying for too. She has no right to dictate what you're allowed to cook. G Reply ...
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    Font - Emotional-Ebb8321 · 3d Partassipant [3] NTA Unless this is a diagnosed medical allergy to meat, she has no right to try to force you not to cook meat at home. G Reply
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    Font - brendanl1998 · 3d Partassipant [2] NTA - I'm a vegetarian for animal reasons, meat makes me sad, but I can't control what other people eat and neither can your roommate. This isn't about her and she has unreasonable expectations G Reply ..

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